Combine the cacao nibs, dried rose petals and lavender blossoms in a mortar and pestle (or a coffee grinder reserved for this purpose). Pulverize until the material is coarsely broken down, then add to a mason jar. Scrape the insides out of the vanilla bean and add to the jar along with the pod.
Cover with brandy. Make sure the lid has a tight seal (look for lids with rubber gaskets), before shaking vigorously . . . but with tenderness. You want to put your energy into this potion, and yet you want that energy to be loving.
Place your jar in a bowl and surround it with crystals that support the intention of drawing love into your life. Store in a cool, dark place for two weeks, shaking daily with that same loving energy.
After 14 days, taste and decide if you're pleased with the potency. Strain out the aromatics and pour into a small amber-colored jar or these, if you're a fancy witch. Store out of direct sunlight, so the flavor retains its potency.